G-Spot: What to consider when buying and using vibrator
For people in and out of relationships, vibrators are a great way to bring more pleasure into your life. Vibrators can help people achieve a more satisfactory orgasm, as well as help you bring your partner to completion. However, there are a lot of things to consider when purchasing or using a vibrator, so let's get into it.
Buying a vibrator can be a daunting task. There are many styles and variations available in a wide range of prices, and looking for one can be overwhelming.
First, you need to decide whether or not you are comfortable buying a vibrator in a store. Going to a sex shop or even Target to buy a vibrator can be a daunting task, but there are plus sides to buying a vibrator in person. Going to a sex store can allow you to look at the different option and prices available to you, as well as ask people in the store for advice or assistance.
A great affordable option is the Vibrating Bullet, which is available at drugstores and Target. If you don’t want to go in person however, there are many stores such as Nox Shop, Sweet Vibes, Pleasure Chest and Unbound that all offer a great selection with tons of helpful information for you to peruse. Plus, all these stores ship discreetly, and you get the added perk of reading reviews from other shoppers.
Another thing to consider is that not all vibrators on the market are safe to use. When shopping, make sure that the material the vibrator is made out of is non-porous. Porous materials can trap bacteria and stop you from fully being able to clean your vibrator which can lead to infections. Materials to avoid include jelly latex, jelly-rubber, polyvinyl chloride (PVC), thermoplastic rubber (TPR) and thermoplastic elastomer (TPE). Make sure the vibrator you’re buying is made out of silicon, ABS plastic or stainless steel. For first time users, a silicon vibrator is the way to go—they are easy to clean and can last a longtime with proper care.
Cleaning your vibrator is easy and crucial to using it. You can buy vibrator cleaner at most sex stores but is it not necessary for cleaning—all you need to do is rinse with water and use any kind of unscented soap to clean. If the toy has been used by a partner or someone other than yourself, you need to disinfect the vibrator. You can do this by boiling the vibrator in water for 5-10 minute, then let air dry. Make sure to check any instructions that come with your vibrator for additional instructions.
So, how do you pick the perfect vibrator for you? Well, the first thing to think about is what kind of stimulation brings you the most pleasure. There are vibrators made for clitoral, anal, penis, prostate and internal/g-spot stimulation, as well as internal and external (g-spot and clitoral) stimulation.
Pick a design and shape that will help you stimulate what you like best; then, think about how and where you will be using your vibrator. Will you be using it in the shower? If so, look for waterproof options. Do you want it to be battery-operated or chargeable? Sex toys are going through a bit of a renaissance when it comes to technology, and there are even vibrators that you can control with a remote or an app on your phone. For beginners, a rechargeable vibrator should do the trick, but if you are looking to explore more deeply into the world of vibrators, there are so many cool options available.
When it comes time to use your new vibrator the word to remember is experimentation! Try it over your underwear, on non-genital erogenous zones, with a partner, without a partner, with lube, at different angles and varying pressures. The world is your oyster, and all you need is the time to discover what works best for you!
Sources:
https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/guides/how-to-clean-sex-toys/
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/how-to-use-a-vibrator#how-to-use